Dancing around the stupid bush
I really hate wondering, "What is he really thinking? Did he mean anything by saying that? Should I email, or should I wait and see if he emails first? What if I email, and then he takes it the wrong way and thinks I'm trying to chase him? (Well, of course you are trying to indicate interest, but no girl likes to be thought of as 'chasing' a guy...) Should I say this, or would it be better if I said that?" All these questions drive me 'round the bend.
Why can't this whole man-woman thing be more straightforward? Sheesh.