Do you recognise yourself in here? :P
Nowadays I tell people I'm a freelance writer. Coz it seems like that's what I'm doing right now, and it's easier to explain than "Oh, I have two jobs, and I'm confused about my career..." :P
Ever since I started writing professionally again, I've been reminded of the two greatest pet peeves I had in journalism:
- People who don't talk, and
- People who are vague about details.
But with other people... it's like a chunk of gold would fall out the minute their lips are prised open. You ask them one thing, and they give you the shortest answer possible.
- Me: "What is your fondest memory?"
He: "My first vacation in a foreign country."
Me: "Why?"
He: "It was enjoyable."
Me: "Where did you go?"
He: "Phuket, Thailand."
Me: "Why did you find it so enjoyable?"
These are the 'dry' interviews, as I privately call them. When I just have to grit my teeth and keep on digging, prising the information out bit by bit, hoping to hit pay dirt by finding a subject that will get them a little more animated, or at least hoping to get an interesting anecdote or two. Somehow.
And then there are the people who are vague about details.
- She: "...and I participated in a national competition and won a medal."
Me: "What was the name of this competition?"
She: "I'm not sure, it was one of the Garland events."
Me: *raises one eyebrow* "You don't know the exact name of the competition?"
She: "Err... something like the Garland Nationals."
Me: (resigned) "When exactly did this take place?"
She: "1999."
Me: "Which month?"
She: "I can't remember. Somewhere towards the end of the year, I think."
Me: "And you won a medal. Gold, silver, or bronze?"
Once, I was writing an article where the interviewee had mentioned a time when her mother had broken a leg. My boss asked, "Which leg?" I was like, goodness, I'd never thought to ask. Did it even matter? Apparently it did. So I had to call up my interviewee once again just to ask which leg it had been. And SHE couldn't remember! So we chin-chai tembak (simply chose one).
See what I mean? I can just imagine what she must've been thinking: "You called just to ask which leg my mother broke?! How is that important at all? Haiyah, kacau (disturb) people only..."